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Got a call from the hubby tonight. See, he's been out of town all week, and he wanted to let me know exactly when he was coming in tomorrow afternoon. He also wanted to let me know that he found out he'll be going to Thailand the 19th through the 29th.

I knew the Thailand trip was coming, but DANG! Home about NINE DAYS this month???? I miss him.

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I'm taking a caregiver class next weekend, to learn how to be a better advocate for my mom and what to look for in her different ailments, particularly the vascular dementia. Having not taken the course, I think I'm doing damn fine. Mom has been taking her meds all three times a day, she is actually eating healthy meals on a regular basis, testing her blood sugar three times a day (at least), and is being prepped for her surgery to come soon (the double knee replacement). I guess she'll be staying with me all month.

I haven't killed her yet. That's something.

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On a brighter, yet slightly more Ooogie, note: I stepped into the shoes of a dental hygenist today for a while. Do you KNOW how much it costs to put a dog under and get its teeth cleaned? Double that. Pepper isn't so bad, but Barq's teeth were AWFUL! They were brown in the back, and her canines were brown about halfway down. I brush their teeth sometimes, but not with enough regularity. I do give them plaque prevention stuff, and things to chew. She's just got gross Cairn teeth.

Both of them are really used to me grooming them. During baths, they know which foot to raise up to be cleaned, and do it before you ask. Yeah, we have a routine you could say. They let me clean their eyes and ears. We brush them out. Barqs, on the rare year I feel like doing it, will even let me hand strip her coat. They are ok with their teeth being brushed.

While out at the store today, I saw one of the metal picks the dentist uses to remove tarter buildup from your teeth. I thought it was worth a try because they didn't cost much. I sat down with the dogs upside down in my lap and they LET ME DO THIS! I didn't get it all done, but got a good three or four teeth in Barqs, and a few more than that in Pepper CLEAN. I mean all of the brown tarter just chipped off and their teeth look great...in front. I didn't want to stress them too much, so I called it quits then. I still need to get the back of the teeth, and their rear teeth. It's really hard to get to them because as soon as you open their mouth, they start that licking/chewing thing.

I can't believe I just wrote multiple paragraphs on scraping tarter off my dogs' teeth.

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Off to do Sudoku. Thank God tomorrow is Friday. Too bad I have to reschedule my therapy appointment for Monday because I have to go sit for hours and hours with my mom for a nuclear stress test.

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Oh yeah, got the weed and feed done yesterday and turned the sprinklers back on. Yes, the same night it stormed. :) In a few weeks, I'm going to transplant a honeysuckle bush that has outgrown its pot and needs to go in the ground, and I want to find a few Crepe Myrtles for the backyard. I'm so glad it's gardening time again. It really relaxes me.

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Both of the boys got bad notes sent home from school today. It's not like them. I wonder if they feel the stress of daddy being gone and Gamma being sick and staying with us. We try to keep things as normal as possible.

Comments

trshtwns01
Mar. 10th, 2006 06:11 pm (UTC)
Those things only help in preventing tarter. Once it's there...no dice.

I think I'm a pretty good advocate for my mom, although I do tend to 'take over', especially when giving medical history. She wanders and forgets to mention things, so I just think it speeds things up. I'm taking the class mainly to get information on what to watch out for in case her vascular dementia gets worse, or if there are resources available we could use that I'm not yet aware of.

You are in a good mental state, but do have medical issues. Does Kevin ever have to act as your advocate? Do you ever resent him stepping in, if he does?
morzsa
Mar. 10th, 2006 06:22 pm (UTC)
Kevin is doing a lot of interpreting for me when I don't understand a particular person's speech. He also has to make decisions for me and concerning me, and he does have power of attorney if i'm incapacitated. (Is that the word I'm lookig for at all?) At first I did have resentment issues, when he took up the tutor role that some sign language interpreters tend to fall into.

One of the things that helped us was sitting down and me making my wishes known. That is important for me to know that Kevin knows what I'd want.